Cancel a Good Moving Date Or Try For A Threesome With Her

I have written before that I personally am not big on threesomes, the old “Menage a Trios” as the French would call it. Now just to be clear I am not talking about any of the gay action that some readers might initially think especially in a society where we might be deemed wrong if we didn’t accept the extra man in the bedroom, hell we might even get fired from our own company, but for all intensive purposes in this case we will instead discuss the casual man with two girl action that comes around every now and then while in the dating scene.

I know that many of you might be thinking if you could just get one good girl never mind a threesome and I agree. However you will find that if you are in the serious dating scene that sometimes these things will present themselves. Other times the opportunities present themselves and you must decide what to do. For example I am a big Entourage fan and recently purchased the entire series to watch after the original series aired about 10 years ago. if you haven’t seen it, I totally recommend it. In the series there is the star, a huge womanizer getting laid at every corner with a different chick. Then you have Ari who is the Agent, a non cheating husband to his wife and an excellent family man. Then you have one of the entourage Eric as they call him “E” in the series, he is another guy that is basically the non cheating type and when he has a woman he doesn’t even chat with another girl. He happens to have the hottest girl in Hollywood in my opinion by the name of Sloan, an all natural dark haired beauty that puts any other girls to shame. Her friend a super model came in from another state for the weekend and they hosted her and while out drinking, Sloan mentioned that her friend would be fine with a threesome but she wanted to set rules. She asked him first and he agreed. But normally this guy Eric, a very short average looking man wouldn’t even consider it. I know its a script but I also know that things like these do present themselves even to the best of men with no intentions of ever cheating.

I am not really into threesomes because I never really felt the need for it, normally I would be with a hot enough girl anyway so what would be the point. She will certainly do the trick, even a special request would get fulfilled between the two of you. I also feel they can easily add friction if you do them with the chick you love. For example what if she see’s that you are really enjoying banging the third party and enjoying more than you would normally with her, which by the way could absolutely happen. The third girl could be much hotter and feel much better than the first and could make you only want to bang her. For me there are a slew of reasons why I tend to walk away from these if I am with my woman not that they come up that often. I can tell you that while dating 10 girls in a week in a foreign land, it will most likely come around as they seem to be more open sexually.

The dating scenario that might come around

I will talk about a few scenarios that came around while I was dating in both Colombia and the States that could have turned into threesomes in my opinion but they either didn’t or I made the opposite decision.

First off, imagine if you are on a tight dating schedule in Medellin. You go to lunch with the amazing looking 8 long black hair, perfect natural titties and a great bubbly personality. You know her by way of internet for several weeks prior and you have gotten a little dirty with her in the chat or the calls. Lunch gets delayed and moves closer to a late lunch but you have a later appointment with a girl you already banged to meet you at the hotel for a nice time, room service and a relaxing weeknight evening. Which she can only stay until 11 normally. So at lunch, one thing leads to another the kissing commences, heavy touching as much as you can in an empty lunch place and she wants to go back to the hotel with you to show her gratitude. You don’t think she is the one for marriage and nor is the one later you are meeting at the hotel but needless to say they are both hot and as bad as it is, you have got to play the field in Colombia to really get to know these girls if you want to seriously marry one. In fact as far off as the cultures are and clash, there will be tons of dating before finding a serious one normally. The good news is that, they too enjoy themselves so you are not using them or hurting anyone if you do not marry them, they are just as open as we are and no harm no foul.

She is hot and heavy, you have 30 minutes before the chick gets to the hotel lobby and the choices are.

  • End the lunch at the hot moment, send her on her way and take a taxi back to the hotel.
  • Do a no show at the hotel and take the lunch date to a love motel in Las Vegas barrio area. She will wonder why you are not taking her back to your hotel and might kill the night and the future with her. You will also kill a future with the one waiting at the hotel after a 35 minute taxi ride that she paid for.
  • Invite her back to the hotel with you and spring it on the one waiting that she is going to join us. Perhaps mention it at the restaurant that you would enjoy having a threesome or a good time with them both if she didn’t mind. You know the one waiting is super open minded so she will accept the experience.

It’s a tough one, because if you choose number 1, you might ruin anything for the future with this one. if you choose number 3 at the hotel might they might backfire on the idea and she will be gone forever and she is a nice friend to have.

A second scenario that I came across was actually in Florida with my very first long term girlfriend. This girl was a bad girlfriend, oh she was good looking, the body the big hair all that but just a bad girl. I used to get calls at 2am from guys I knew telling me that this chick was out at a club with some other dude. Just a bad American girl that i’m sure many of you have experienced, I know most of my friends have. In NY we had super good girls and we had nice girls. we had chicks that you could always bang, and those you had to make your long term woman and wait 3 months to bang her.

The Florida Neighbor Booty Call

She banged so many guys that after a while you lose all your feelings for her and that’s it. You keep burning someone and eventually they are gonna walk away relieved.  A couple years of my youth, no biggie. All that being said we still stayed friends over the years. She said that if we turn thirty and are single that we should get married and I thought this chick is nuts but whatever. Give her her fantasy thoughts. One thing we don’t realize when dating in our youth is these same aged girls are going to out ugly us by a long shot after the mid thirties mark.

She stayed in touch and when I was single she would fly down to Florida to visit me and stay for a week every now and then. She kept her body and look real NY sexy, and was fun to be around despite the relationship issues early on. I knew I would never date this girl seriously again and that she might of thought we would end up together but at the same time, she got severe enjoyment coming to Florida, going to Disney, going to dinners, jazz clubs, catching a tan and all the rest we did, while I was single.

One of the years she was over, I had this girl that would come to the house for some pleasure once or twice a week. She was in a bad relationship and wanted to come over mostly to bang and sometimes to talk for a couple minutes. So she showed up, and I told the NY girl that this girl a friend comes by sometimes just to bang, I asked her to give me an hour in the next room and that I would be back. You could see that despite the fun times with NY, I no longer cared for her feelings when it came to relations.

I am in the room next to the master bedroom that myself and NY slept in and I purposely left the door cracked in case she was curious enough to watch or come in. As she undressed, I wanted to say hey I have a good friend very pretty from NY over, do you want to meet her? But I didn’t and I always wondered what would have gone down if I had.

I am sure that they both would have been OK with it as they were both very open sexually and both very good looking.

To me that was a threesome opportunity that presented itself, I might be fetching or perhaps wrong, but it surely seemed like a situation that could have developed had I tried. “If you ask you shall receive” The worst part is that Neither one were serious so nothing bad could have transpired either way. Maybe a “Are you fucking crazy?” or No thanks. But I seriously doubt it, I think that upon that first look and a little heat, it would have turned into a memorable experience.