Threesomes Common in Colombia?

For those of you thinking about taking a flight over to Colombia for pure fun and adult activities. You may have wondered if threesomes are common in such cities as Bogota and Medellin. Although I do not have much experience in the threesome world in any country, my experience tells me that invitations to such activities are more common in the U.S than in Colombia.

Over the years of living in Bogota and Medellin I have noticed that swinger type clubs were starting to become more popular with certain groups and overheard several girls talking about these types of places. In this article I wanted to discuss more the casual threesome than the the club type atmosphere. For one, the girls in Colombia are extremely jealous and really do not like to share anything. So if the girl is serious with you, it’s better to never ask her if she minds if you invite another girl over for the evening. If you do there is a good chance she will think you are done and bored with what she has to offer and will most likely stray and eventually leave the relationship and definitely leave her options open to someone else coming around.

I have had 2 experiences with threesomes in Colombia over a period of around 6 years and one turned out to be a mistake and haunted me in a particular long term relationship. I was dating this girl for around 1 year and we were at Palmahia disco in Medellin one night. We were happy enjoying the music and sipping on vodka. Throughout the night our waitress that was extremely hot and kept smiling and staring at both of us. She was touchy feely when she came to the table usually grabbing my hand or my girlfriends shoulder as she brought us new ice or anything. The waitress even went as far as sitting in our laps for a few moments here and there. It’s normal they will flirt usually with the guy at the table but in this case she was flirting with both of us. Although I noticed this early on, I didn’t mention anything as flirting becomes the norm quickly in Colombia. My girlfriend says to me, wow this girl is super flirty and laughed about it. At this point it was getting later in the evening and after much dancing and vodka we were both very buzzed. I said to my girlfriend, hey let’s ask this girl back to hang out with us, i’m sure she will go. My girlfriend replied are you sure? I said yeah it will be fun. This particular girlfriend was jealous but not the violent type of jealous girl that you are most likely with when dating Colombian girls.

So the next time this waitress comes close to the table, I hand signal her over to me and asked her if she wanted to come over to our place to hang out. She thought about it for a a few seconds and agreed. It was Saturday night and typically nobody works Sunday so I knew we would probably be up till around 6am and I was thrilled this hot babe was joining us back. Surprisingly my girlfriend seemed to be totally ok with it as well. The place is starting to close and the waitress comes to my girlfriend and tells her that we should wait outside so her boss or anyone doesn’t see her leave with us.

We go outside and while waiting I grab a chicken soup that a vendor is selling right there as you walk out, I knew I would need to straighten out a bit plus the added energy would be good. Around 20 minutes pass and she walks out, we grab a cab and head back to the apartment. When arriving at the apartment I take out some glasses and we crack open another bottle of vodka. She asks to take a shower, she heads in the bathroom to take shower and leaves the door open and starts undressing. I can see this from the mirror in the bathroom and I was stoked and still shocked of the whole situation. After all it was the very first time ever doing this with an actual girlfriend.

The shower ends and she asks for a shirt to use. My girlfriend grabs one of my t shirts and brings it to her. She comes over, grabs her drink and sits with us on the bed. it was kind of awkward but yet super exciting as she sits there in just a over sized t shirt with nothing else on. You could see her nipples peeking through the shirt. With these beautiful tanned legs and long straight jet black hair. We are sitting there just talking and laughing and as we laughed this girl always would freely grab a leg or somehow break the ice even further. I was thinking how am I gonna start this, so I decide to start kissing my girlfriend although she really wasn’t that much on my mind at this point. While i’m kissing her I reach over and start touching this girls shoulder working my way down the inside of the collar of this t shirt feeling these incredible nips. Wow! A night like this brings vivid memories. All of a sudden the girl starts rubbing through my jeans. I was sure my girlfriend wasn’t lesbian or even bisexual so I knew this night was for me and if my girlfriend touched this girl it was totally due to being buzzed out from the vodka. I take off my girlfriends shirt and bra and this girl takes off her only piece of clothing at this point the girl unbuttons my jeans and I start unbuttoning my girlfriends jeans and I start making out with the other one. My girlfriend gets up and shuts the light in the room and turns on the mtv channel in the hotel. Basically what had happened was what I thought would would happen. I pretty much took turns on each one as the other watched.

While banging the waitress, I looked over to see my girlfriends face and she seemed still ok just watching in the dark room. I made sure to at least give my girlfriend an orgasm prior to banging the other to make sure she was happy and no sudden changes in feelings to stop the whole ordeal.

A few months later every time we had an argument she would bring this night up and throw it in my face. Always thinking I am cheating, it got so bad that I had to call it quits and learn my lesson. If you are going to do a threesome ever with a Colombian girl, just make sure you don’t have any feelings for one of them. It will eventually kill the relationship or get brought up enough to make you sick and leave.